Few weeks ago, I thought of giving marriage a consideration. I said I'll try to give it a chance until the 28th year of my stay on earth. That would be a year from now.
The possibility of finding someone who might complement “My Person” is too much for me and there's the miscalculated risk of having it work out. So, I finally decided to just forget about it. Probably, I'm not the marrying type. For 26years in the making I still can't imagine myself wearing a wedding gown, walking in the church's aisle meeting my groom. For me, it actually sounds more like a nightmare than a sweet dream. Besides, men are like drugs!
Men have disastrous effects just like the Heroin - they are highly addictive! They woo you to depend on them to the extent that they would manipulate you to need them in order to function in your daily routine. It starts out with a rush of pleasure, leaves you in a fog for many hours afterwards... then soon find that your sole purpose in life is to have more of the drug.
Worse is the type of guy who has the powerful effect of Cocaine. A highly - addictive MANipulant! - I mean stimulant. The Addicted woman usually loses interest in many areas of life, including school, sports, family, and friends. Being around this type of man can lead to feelings of paranoia and anxiety.
Although, they enhance sex drive; Physical effect of cocaine-type men on the receptors in the brain reduce the ability to feel pleasure in other aspects of life. Thus the victim becomes dependent.
Marijuana-type Men - controls emotion, memory, and judgment just like the one affected by marijuana. Smoking these type of men can not only weaken short-term memory, but can block information from making it into long term memory. It has also been shown to weaken problem solving ability. They get into our system, we easily forget their foolishness, care for them despite the pain caused. Obviously makes you look like dumb.
Often times they also have the Alcohol affect. They impair our judgment and lead to memory lapses. Lead us to blackouts. Distorts our vision, shortens coordination, and in addition to the brain damage they also cause Heart failures and heartaches.Easy to get Inhalants (Drug equivalent: glue, gasoline, hair spray, and paint thinner, when sniffed).
- Men we met at the bar or party. Their effect on the brain is almost immediate. While some are like vapors - gone quickly, others will remain for a long time.
Effects of Inhalant - type men include diminished ability to learn from the mistake and remember.
Others provide the effect of "Ecstasy" extended togetherness of this MANphetamine causes difficulty differentiating reality and fantasy, and causes problems concentrating. Experience has proven that "ecstasy - type of men" destroys logic. The victim may re-connect after discontinued relationship but they don't re-connect normally.
Like most broken-hearted, they become paranoid, anxious and confused.
If you are familiar with drugs often prescribed to treat attention deficit disorder I would be glad to tell you that "men of this type" exist. They give you all the attention you need. However rare - They are becoming an illicit street men-drug as well.
Attention deficit women looking for a high will crush these men into a powder and snort them like cocaine, or inject it like heroin. It then has a much more powerful effect on the body BUT these men after they are through they cause severe headaches, anxiety, paranoia, and delusions.
Bottom line, they all cause a negative effect.
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